human behaviour

"Our words are often hidden containers of hidden hopes and cloudy expectations. Our silence assumes a power to communicate it does not have. Our timing tires and offends. Whenever we have expectations of others that we do not say directly, we set ourselves up for disappointment."

-Fran Ferder-

Your words and behaviour tell people who you are. Human communication and behaviour fall into three basic categories:

1. passiveness

2. aggressiveness

3. assertiveness

Passiveness is a reluctance or inability to confidently express what you think and feel.

Aggressive communication and behaviour, whether direct or indirect, results in a put-down of the person, causing hurt, defensiveness, and humiliation. Aggresive behaviour does not take the other person's goals or feelings into account.

Assertiveness is an alternative to the extremes of passiveness and aggressiveness. Assertion is rooted in respect; respect for yourself and for the other person.

reference: How To Communicate With Confidence

which category that i'm falling into?

*wink*wink*

cara aku

" If a style of writing doesn't come easily to you, then it's probably not coming easily to the reader either. Style must come from who you are, not who you wish you were. Just relax and write as well as you can."

-Gary Provost-

aku suka dengan quote ni..
aku tak pandai menulis..
aku cuma ingin meluahkan apa yang aku rasa..
aku hanya mampu menulis dengan cara aku..

diam

diam...
adakah bermakna aku takut?
adakah bermakna aku malu?
adakah bermakna aku tidak pandai?
adakah bermakna aku sombong?
aku ingin diam untuk mengurangkan tekanan..
aku ingin diam untuk menghabiskan kerja2 aku yang masih belum selesai..
aku ingin diam untuk menimba ilmu2 baru..
aku ingin diam untuk menilai diri sendiri..
aku ingin diam untuk merencana masa hadapan..
aku ingin diam untuk menghargai diri sendiri...

Pseudomonas aeruginosa

''Pseudomonad'' literally means 'false unit',

widespread occurrence in water and in plant seeds 

 genus of Gram-negative

rod-shaped

polar-flagella bacteria

 naturally resistant to penicillin and the majority of related beta-lactam antibiotics..

 ^{cantik kan?}

^{kelmarin dia mula menghantui aku..}

^{melipatgandakan kerja aku..}

^{bertambah lagi pembelajaran dan pengalaman hidup aku...}

bumi bersuara

Merapi meletus

 

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